The order of the day

Saturday, June 12, 2027. Arrive from two; nothing before then is organized, and the tavern down the road does not open until twelve.

2pm
Doors, and a drink The yard
2:30pm
The ceremony The yard, or the grain floor if wet
3:15pm
Photographs, briefly By the pond
4pm
Iced tea, beer and a cake table The long barn
6pm
Dinner The grain floor
8:30pm
Toasts The grain floor
9:15pm
The band, then the playlist The long barn
12:30am
Bacon biscuits The yard
1am
Send-off The lane
Harriet and Ivo reaching for each other on open ground in the late sun.

A few things worth knowing

The ceremony is thirty-five minutes and there is no processional music you need to stand for. If you are running late, come in at the back; the officiant will not mind and neither will we.

Dinner is served, not a buffet, so tell us in your reply if there is something you cannot eat. Between the ceremony and dinner there is a long gap on purpose — that is the part everyone remembers.

The bar takes cards. Rideshares out here dry up before the band does, so see travel and stay first.